Missed a Mortgage Payment? Your First 60 Days Explained
Missed a mortgage payment? This guide explains your first 60 days, detailing steps to stabilize your finances, communicate with your servicer, and choose the best repayment option.
Missed a Mortgage Payment? Your First 60 Days Explained
If you just missed a mortgage payment, you have a short window to stabilize things before fees, credit damage, and legal timelines accelerate. Here’s a clear, step‑by‑step plan for your first 60 days so you know exactly what to do, what to say, and what to prepare.
At‑a‑glance timeline
Days 1–7: Verify status, stop unnecessary outflows, organize documents
Days 3–10: Call your servicer’s Loss Mitigation team and submit a complete package
Days 7–21: Choose a track based on income and hardship
Days 14–45: Execute, respond quickly, and track legal notices
Days 30–60: If denied, fix the reason and re‑submit or pivot
Phase 1: Verify and Stabilize (Days 1–7)
Confirm the facts
Log into your servicer portal. Verify amount due, due date, grace period, and late fee policy
Check escrow changes (taxes or insurance) that may have raised your payment
Stop the bleed
Pause or cancel autopay to avoid NSF fees
Prioritize the four walls: housing, utilities, transportation, food
Build a mini cash map
Identify what you can free up in 30 days: subscriptions, discretionary spending, optional debt prepayments
If you expect income within 30–45 days, note dates and amounts to inform your proposal
Phase 2: Contact Your Servicer (Days 3–10)
What to ask
“What is my exact delinquency status and the next legal milestone on my loan?”
“Which workout options am I likely to qualify for based on my hardship and income?”
“What specific documents do you need and where do I upload them?”
Prepare a clean package
Last 30–60 days of paystubs, two most recent bank statements, hardship letter, full mortgage statement
Property tax and insurance details; proof of additional income if applicable
Scripts that work
“I want to prevent fees and protect my credit. I can submit a complete package today. Please confirm the correct intake email or portal and the exact document list.”
Phase 3: Choose Your Track (Days 7–21)
How to pick the right track (decision guide)
If you can clear the total past due within 30–45 days without missing other essentials → Reinstate
If income is steady but the lump sum is unrealistic → Repayment plan over 3–12 months
If income has reset lower for 6+ months or debt ratios won’t pencil → Modification
If affordability won’t return inside 60–90 days or sale deadlines are looming → Sell for speed and certainty
Sample hardship letter (1‑page template)
What happened: “On July 14, I was laid off from Acme Co. My income fell from $6,400/mo to $2,100/mo unemployment.”
What changed or is changing: “As of Sept 1, I accepted a new role at $5,200/mo. Start date is Sept 29.”
What you can afford now: “I can afford $2,100/mo for three months (trial), then $2,450/mo thereafter.”
What you are requesting: “Please evaluate me for a modification with these payment targets, or a repayment plan if approved sooner.”
Income math the reviewer will check
Front‑end DTI target often 25–35% (program‑dependent)
Back‑end DTI target often 45–55% with documented debts
Stability: 30–60 days of consistent deposits for wages; 12–24 months history for self‑employment
Proof: paystubs, award letters, bank statements showing deposits
Reinstatement (catch up in one payment)
Best if income is stable and the miss was a one‑off
Repayment plan (spread arrears over several months)
Good for temporary hardship with consistent income
Loan modification (change rate, term, or payment)
For sustained affordability issues; expect a Trial Period Plan (TPP) before final docs
Sell before timelines compress
If affordability won’t recover soon, price for attention and speed to preserve equity
Tip: If you have FHA or VA, ask about program‑specific options and timelines. Rules differ by loan type.
Phase 4: Execute and Communicate (Days 14–45)
Submission hygiene
Combine documents into one clear PDF. Use descriptive filenames. No missing pages
Respond to requests within 48 hours
Track legal dates
Non‑judicial states may move quickly after a Notice of Default
Judicial states differ, but the clock still ticks—log every notice and deadline
Credit protection
Ask if evaluation or forbearance pauses adverse reporting. Get confirmations in writing
Phase 5: If the First Answer Is “No” (Days 30–60)
Identify the blocker
Common issues: Missing docs, debt‑to‑income (DTI) too high, unstable income history
Fix and re‑submit
Update docs, add explanations, or adjust proposal amounts
Pivot if needed
Repayment → modification, or modification → sell for speed and certainty
Quick FAQs
Common mistakes to avoid
Waiting to call the servicer until you can pay in full
Sending an incomplete package or missing pages
Letting quotes expire before paying a reinstatement
Ignoring mailed notices because the portal isn’t updated yet
Promising an amount you can’t sustain on a Trial Plan
Example scenarios (so you can model your plan)
One-time miss, income stable: Reinstate within 30 days. Ask servicer to waive late fee in writing
Hours cut, income recovers in 45 days: Repayment plan over 6 months. Document temporary hardship and return-to-work date
Income permanently lower: Request modification with a realistic target payment. Expect a 3-payment Trial Period Plan
Act in the first week, submit a complete package, and pick the track that matches your income reality. Log every date and response. If denied, fix the blocker and re-submit within the 60-day window
Will one late kill my credit?
A 30‑day late hurts, but acting fast may prevent a 60‑day late and cascading fees
Can I still get forbearance?
Some programs remain, but availability varies by loan type and servicer. Ask and get it in writing
Do FHA and VA have special options?
Often yes. Evaluation rules, waterfalls, and timelines vary by program
Your 10‑minute action plan (print this)
Log into your servicer portal. Confirm status and amounts due today
Call Loss Mitigation. Ask for your likely options and the exact document list
Pick a track: reinstate, repay, modify, or sell. Submit a complete package this week
Calendar 10‑day check‑ins until decision. Track legal notices and respond within 48 hours
Helpful next steps
Gather docs with this checklist: paystubs, bank statements, hardship letter, mortgage statement, tax and insurance info
Write your hardship letter in one page: what happened, when it started, what’s changed, what you can afford now
Unsure of loan type? Check your statement or ask your servicer directly
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I'm a co-founder of KW Default Solutions, where we teach real estate professionals to master distressed property transactions including short sales, REOs, and foreclosures. With over 20 years of real estate experience and a passion for technology innovation, I combine industry expertise with cutting-edge solutions to help agents build recession-proof businesses. I'm particularly focused on developing AI tools and custom applications that streamline complex default processes, making it easier for our community members to navigate challenging transactions while delivering exceptional results for distressed homeowners.
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